The other day I noticed a few women sitting together at church. The widows. It got me to thinking, we may not know our spouse as long as our parents, but we are around them a lot more. They are the ones who know our bad days, sick days, financial troubles. You love them or at one time loved them and you have so many memories of them. Together you have children and have lost parents. They have molded you into do you far. They are your person.